I don't think I have ever blamed someone else for my failure even in a partnership. I would definitely list out things that could have been done better but not blame someone else. If I was going to do that I would probably still state something that I did that effected the result of the failure as well. I don't like to think things are my fault I don't think no one does and it is hard to accept that but I am teaching myself how. "I don't pretend it never happened". Something I can never do forgive and forget I can forgive and move on but never forget. So things like that don't deny failure accept it learn from it and move on. Only way things will get better is to just move on. Take responsibility and do things that lead to future success, or to avoid the temporary pain of responsibility and make excuses..Time to move on and create plans for the future and don't dwell on the past. Because the past has only made you stronger as a person.
What time do you wake up? I used to be a early bird I use to have to do homework I didn't feel like doing at night. Or I had to find a outfit that was super cute for school which took me about an hour. Then I decided i'll just do everything at night that way I can sleep longer in the morning. Honestly changing didn't really make a difference but I would wait so long to do everything I would stay until the morning. But I get as much sleep as I can now especially this week I been waking up at 7:00 having to shower and also get ready. Then heading to school about 7:38 and getting there at 7:50 then running to class to be there on time. Something I need to change going to sleep at a reasonable time so I can get up at a time where I am not rushing to get ready. What is today's most single important goal? You see I never thought of it this way people always told me think long term. Where do you want to be the next couple of years Dasha. I tell myself I don't know then I constantly think and think find a idea and your right! The next week I change my mind I don't want to do that goal anymore. So short term goals are probably my best bet in getting somewhere. What hard thing are you not doing enough? Taking information and implementing it where I need it I share the information with family and friends then later on forget the information. I know what a teenager but I can't help it. I need to start challenging myself its just every time I do it I really don't like the outcome of the situation, usually the challenge gets me down a little more than bring me up in my spirit. Do you really need to buy that? Haha YES I DO! I was the biggest cheapskate in the world and I had money. But why do I have money I have saving even I'm not saving toward a goal. I realized that and started spending, spending so much that I spent my all my income taxes but understand that I wasn't sad when I spent all that money. I was actually really happy about it I loved all the new clothes I bought. But I need lose out on a lot of money that could have stayed in my bank account for something more serious like new tires or a wheel alignment but I need one.
All successful people men and women are big dreamers. They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/b/briantracy163247.html#ocVoSbXP5lRspYxW.99 I constantly ask my mom when I get rich what kind of house you want, or when I get rich one kind of car you want because I heard you can speak things to life. So now I longer say I hope I'm going to get rich I say I am going to get rich. I try to reach for my goals everyday with getting involved in everything I can. The happiest people in the world are those who feel absolutely terrific about themselves, and this is the natural outgrowth of accepting total responsibility for every part of their life. Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/b/brian_tracy.html#rjx7C0OPfECluZhf.99 I can wait until I'm this happy, I'm always smiling because I think everything is funny I'm a goofy person. Being geniunely happy with myself has to be the best feeling in the world and I can't wait to get to that point. I want to accept myself as a whole and become who I am I think that point of life will be later but I'm excited to figure out who I am. Wow do I have a comfort zone and yes it does take over me, or wait maybe that's my fear that I have. I used to let my comfort zone take control of me but I decided that I won't let it happen again. In this blog it say's that the best way to get out of your comfort zone is public speaking and its funny because I been trying to get involved in so many public speaking events. Like this pageant I decided to be in and also I will be speaking to 350 young girls at the ISD May 8th. Public speaking does make you get out of your comfort zone and in this article it also says this may cause you to have pain,grief, or maybe even failure. Trust me I have experienced all of those I just want to experience success now. The article ended with a SEE YOU AT THE TOP. That was suppose to be a inspirational sentence but I will actually see you there.
Don't wish it was easier wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom. I love this quote especially the part where it said don't wish to make things easier wish you were better. I'm going to always remember people constantly want to take the easy route but never the rigid road and usually the rigid roads takes you further, gives you experience, and teaches you a lesson.
“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” I never thought about it in this context. Motivation is what gets you started and habit is what keeps you going. So instead f constantly thinking of where I want to be at this age. I have to get into the habit of constantly doing things so I can lead up to that stage. I need to get into the habit of doing code daily. One leadership moment I went through during spring break was I was promoted to assistant manger during spring break. I managed four days last week. It was just one server and I during the morning I manged from 11-4. Friday I ended up managing from 11-9 which was horrible I got into a argument with a customer which I regret which leads me to my lesson. I already knew about this but I shouldn't let me emotions take hold of me especially when fixing a customer's problem. I was very rude due to him being very rude to me and talking to me like a first grader in the beginning. He wanted to speak to the general manger so I gave him her number and told him the best times to call her. So I wish I would've killed him with kindness instead of being as rude as I was.
If you don't see yourself as a winner than you can't perform like a winner. Like Zig said it's all about the attitude if you don't have the attitude to be a winner than you won't be. And if you always have the mindset that you won't accomplish something then you won't. It's truly the what you believe in yourself and the motivation you give yourself is really something. What you feel when you finally accomplish something is truly inspirational.
Wow as I look back you definitely can't change the past and I haven't done much in my 18 years of like I do have past experiances. I have learned never to give up you work until you can't push anymore and you want to know why because you only have one life! Post poning things like this will have you get no where in life. I have learned that saying no to great opportunites will have you wishing you said yes or maybe being jealous of the person who said yes. I will always push for my dreams and goals ALWAYS because I only see myself in my dreams being sucessful.
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Dasha JonesHi I'm 18 years old. I been coding websites for three now I'm going to major in computer science. I decided to attend Eastern Michigan University. Scared of what this journey holds. Archives
May 2015
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